The first week or so after we took our baby home was filled with a sore mama and a tired daddy. I spent most of my time in a green recliner while my husband had daddy duty. Due to the horizontal incision at my bikini I had an opening in my incision to allow drainage. If it weren't for my sister changing my dressing over the next three months, it never would have healed. It was nice because we lived so close that she was able to come over every couple hours to change the dressing or to take care of the baby while I rested.
My mom was also a lifesaver. There were a lot of mornings where I would call her as early as 7am to come over so I could nap. I was so stressed out and overwhelmed. I had issues with breastfeeding, my husband and I were dealing with a loss, I was sleep-deprived, and I had a very sore belly that was leaking fluids constantly. I had numerous melt-downs but I had support from my husband, parents, sister, and my bestie, Nicki. They were there with food, supplies, and simply a listening ear.
It was both a happy and a sad day when we moved an hour away. But we make it work. The move allows me to grow closer to my aunt who has been another mother to me. Right now she needs all the love and support she can get. My dear uncle is battling lung cancer so I pray God's mercy and blessing on them. My aunt loves him dearly and I know she'd be lost without him.
What a ride these past 5 months have been. Now as I look at my almost 6 month old son resting comfortable, I thank God for His continued blessings on my life. I look forward to spending many more months with my husband and son.
I never imagined I would ever have a family of my own. Then in a span of one glorious year I met my husband (on my 30th birthday), married him, and gave birth to our son (on my 31st birthday)!! How could I possibly top that!!
Thank You, Lord, for Your blessings. You knew what You were doing when You allowed me to go through those ups and downs after my son's birth. I know that they were nothing but speedbumps in my life and that I am a stronger woman, wife, and mother because of them. Amen.
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